There And (Hopefully) Back Again

Gen Li
7 min readApr 3, 2024

If you’ve been following my stories, you might already know that 15 months ago, my husband and I immigrated to Canada from the Philippines, but that hasn’t quite turned out the way we thought it would.

My second story on Medium outlined the things I wish I knew about Canada before moving here.

I’ve also candidly curated a short list of unexpected things that have triggered and heightened our feelings of loneliness and homesickness as immigrants — from the most mundane (shampoo, for e.g.), to the most profound.

And one day, in a fit of rage, helplessness, and hopelessness, I even wrote and published an “open letter” to Canadian Immigration. This didn’t get too many views, so all it really did for me was give me a little bit of temporary “release”.

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Gen Li

I write to untangle life's complexities. I write to connect, one heartfelt story at a time.